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A King Is Anointed (1 Samuel 10:1-8)

On By Tim EhrhardtIn Christian Spirituality Blog, Daily Bible Reading Blog, Year BLeave a comment
Samuel anoints Saul as king, by Unknown artist

Then Samuel took a flask of olive oil and poured it on Saul’s head and kissed him, saying, “Has not the Lord anointed you ruler over his inheritance? When you leave me today, you will meet two men near Rachel’s tomb, at Zelzah on the border of Benjamin. They will say to you, ‘The donkeys you set out to look for have been found. And now your father has stopped thinking about them and is worried about you. He is asking, “What shall I do about my son?”’

“Then you will go on from there until you reach the great tree of Tabor. Three men going up to worship God at Bethel will meet you there. One will be carrying three young goats, another three loaves of bread, and another a skin of wine. They will greet you and offer you two loaves of bread, which you will accept from them.

“After that you will go to Gibeah of God, where there is a Philistine outpost. As you approach the town, you will meet a procession of prophets coming down from the high place with lyres, timbrels, pipes and harps being played before them, and they will be prophesying. The Spirit of the Lord will come powerfully upon you, and you will prophesy with them; and you will be changed into a different person. Once these signs are fulfilled, do whatever your hand finds to do, for God is with you.

“Go down ahead of me to Gilgal. I will surely come down to you to sacrifice burnt offerings and fellowship offerings, but you must wait seven days until I come to you and tell you what you are to do.” (New International Version)

Events were in motion. The priest and prophet Samuel was quite aware of the happenings. But the would-be king Saul was not at all savvy to what was transpiring.

While out and about engaging in his regular circuit ministry as judge in Israel, Samuel presided over the sanctuary feast. Saul was the unbeknown guest of honor. He had been picked out and placed at the head of the table. Only Samuel knew what was going on.

Without calling any attention to it, God was at work behind the scenes. The Israelites had petitioned for a king. They were of an attitude that we might imagine them being a bunch of malcontent children who complained to God saying, “All the other nations have a king. Why don’t we? We need a king, too! Give us a king! We want a king!” Who knows but that there maybe was a bit of stomping the foot along with the demand.

Sometimes what we think we want is not what we need.

Despite the people’s frame of mind and heart, and refusal of Samuel’s warning to them, the Lord decided to grant them a king. And Saul was the one chosen by God.

The actual anointing of the king, and setting him apart for that service, happened in private between Samuel and Saul. The priest poured oil on the head of Saul – which was a symbolic way of installation, as well as a sign of God’s blessing on him for a special position of leadership. This is why kings were often referred to as “the Lord’s anointed.”

Samuel anointed Saul as king. Art by Sefira Lightstone

As contemporary readers of the Bible, and separated by thousands of years of ancient Israelite culture, we may fail to grasp how radical this event is in Jewish history. Israel went centuries without any king at all; and now, at this point with Samuel and Saul, they have their first one.

This was a moment that changed everything for Israel. Even though Saul becoming king in Israel, this would likely not be identified by anybody as a seminal event in the Bible. Yet, just because it originally came without any glitz or ornate ceremony, the establishment of a kingship was a watershed moment, nonetheless.

But that’s typically how many things in life shake-out. People pray in the privacy of a secret prayer closet, or decide to step out with obedient faith for a seemingly insignificant place in time. There are no paparazzi or reporters, no large crowds or anyone really paying attention.

We choose to do something in the obscurity of our mundane daily lives. But the Lord is directing us, moving us toward something we could never imagine was going to happen. Big consequences can come about through the smallest acts of humility and quiet obedience.

Hopefully, we are more like this, than like the people who whined and clamored for a king.

Saul was anointed king. The people needed to know it. And Saul needed to be prepared for being a new sort of leader. Israel had to realize that God was setting up the kingship; it wasn’t just a thing Samuel came up with.

Therefore, three signs were given for Saul to expect. Each sign became progressively bigger so that the public could see and know that Saul is the person for whom God anointed.

Up to this point, Saul was really nothing more than another person in Israel. He never went to King’s College and learned how to be royal, simply because there was no such thing. But that was no problem for God. The Lord has the power and authority to turn anyone into a different person – including a king who can lead the people.

The only thing Saul had to do is listen to Samuel and obey the Lord. That’s it. Nothing more. Samuel would keep doing what he’s always been doing; and God will do what God has always done. Saul only needed to hear and do.

However, we can anticipate what happens whenever we humans are left to do nothing but listen and obey; we far too often hear and get anxious. And in our anxiety, we think we heard something different than what we really heard.

Things get complicated pretty fast when anxiety gets in the mix. Yet, to listen and obey is really quite simple, at its core.

Whenever things get crazy and complicated for you, I wonder if its really more complicated in your head or your heart than it really is. Perhaps it might be a lot simpler and calmer if you and I just did what we need to do, when we need to do it, without overthinking things.

Part of the reason the new kingship changed everything so much, is that after Saul became king, things got complicated pretty fast. And I think you know why…

O God, the source of all health, well-being, and peace: So fill my heart with faith in your love and trust in your divine will, that with calm expectancy I may make room for your power to possess me, and gracefully accept your leading in my life. Amen.

Family Drama (Genesis 29:15-28)

On By Tim EhrhardtIn Christian Spirituality Blog, Daily Bible Reading Blog, Year ALeave a comment
Jacob works to gain Rachel’s hand, 5th century mosaic, Basilica of Santa Maria Maggiore, Rome

Laban said to him [Jacob] “Just because you are a relative of mine, should you work for me for nothing? Tell me what your wages should be.”

Now Laban had two daughters; the name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. Leah had weak eyes, but Rachel had a lovely figure and was beautiful. Jacob was in love with Rachel and said, “I’ll work for you seven years in return for your younger daughter Rachel.”

Laban said, “It’s better that I give her to you than to some other man. Stay here with me.” So Jacob served seven years to get Rachel, but they seemed like only a few days to him because of his love for her.

Then Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife. My time is completed, and I want to make love to her.”

So Laban brought together all the people of the place and gave a feast. But when evening came, he took his daughter Leah and brought her to Jacob, and Jacob made love to her. And Laban gave his servant Zilpah to his daughter as her attendant.

When morning came, there was Leah! So Jacob said to Laban, “What is this you have done to me? I served you for Rachel, didn’t I? Why have you deceived me?”

Laban replied, “It is not our custom here to give the younger daughter in marriage before the older one. Finish this daughter’s bridal week; then we will give you the younger one also, in return for another seven years of work.”

And Jacob did so. He finished the week with Leah, and then Laban gave him his daughter Rachel to be his wife. (New International Version)

There’s no drama quite like family drama. Love and hate, unity and inequality, privileged and powerless, gender and patriarchy, altruism and selfishness, all combine for a strange brew we call “family.” It seems you can’t live with them, or without them.

In a love story for the ages, the lonely Jacob meets the lovely Rachel. It was a divine appointment, and quite literally, a match made in heaven. (Genesis 29:1-14)

Although the romance appears to lead to a happy and better days, it is anything but. The family dynamics are at play, and it leads to plenty of dysfunctional stuff. Just as Jacob the deceiver successfully wrangled a blessing away from his brother for himself, Rachel’s father Laban did his own bit of deception.

Having promised Rachel to Jacob, the elder daughter Leah replaces her sister and is found in the marriage bed in the morning after the wedding. Oy! It was Laban’s doing. He had Jacob over a barrel.

The whole situation ended up creating an unhealthy competition between the two sisters for the affection of their husband. So much for living happily ever after.

A lot of this story exposes the gap between the ancient biblical world and our own contemporary cultural context. The patriarchal and tribal society within the book of Genesis assumes that marriage is first and foremost an alliance between men involving the exchange of women. This is anything but a commitment between individuals intending to share their lives together. Laban and Jacob work out the marriage price of seven years of labor without any consultation of the bride(s)-to-be.

What’s more, polygamy seems a given. We get no objections to multiple women being married to one man. And this is typically how Old Testament narratives work – they give us the story, without moral comment, and let that story speak for itself about the ethics involved. The consequences to the decisions and actions are meant to demonstrate the morality or immorality of it all.

There remains, however, a tender love story inside all the drama. Despite all the deceit and masculine posturing for position, Jacob was madly in love with Rachel and would do anything for her – including working fourteen years in unjust conditions.

As in most family affairs, all of this is terribly complicated. Jacob’s singular love for Rachel, and Laban’s finagling, strands the older sister Leah in a loveless marriage. Even with God’s enablement of giving Leah many children, the tragedy of the family drama continued. Rachel envied her elder sister’s fertility, as she herself desperately tried to conceive. It’s all a quite convoluted way to realizing the blessing of God to Abraham’s descendants.

The casual introduction of servant women in this narrative raises all sorts of issues concerning social class, slave and domestic labor, and reproductive rights – not to mention such realities as sexual trafficking and abuse with which we still wrestle in the twenty-first century.

Despite the distance between the ancient world and our own, we have a lot in common with people of the past. We are far from perfect. Families are messy and often broken. We hurt each other intentionally and unintentionally. We act in our own best interest and against the greater good of others. We forget to ask those with less power about decisions that impact their lives.

To look in on this family reality show in Genesis is to look straight into human brokenness. And yet, through all of Jacob’s family drama, God’s purposes were advanced. Jacob had been promised he would have a multitude of descendants, and it was through the unloved Leah and her servant Zilpah that eight of the twelve tribes of Israel trace their descent.

Even the deceitfulness of Laban and Jacob cannot stand in the way of God’s purposes. Human sin may delay the realization of God’s promises, but our human foibles shall never overrule the sovereignty and providence of God’s good plans for humanity.

God of compassion, whose Son Jesus Christ, the child of Mary, shared the life of a home in Nazareth, and on the cross drew the whole human family to himself: Have mercy on us all, especially on our families of origin and all the various family situations we find ourselves within.

Strengthen us in our daily living, so that in joy and in sorrow we may know the power of your presence to bind together and to heal, through Jesus Christ our Lord, the power of the Holy Spirit. Amen.